Date: Thu Jan 16 2003 - 22:33:32 EST
From: John or Carol Burgeson <firstname.lastname@example.org>
I am post this with the permission of the author. Yes, it is about the
"gay" issue again. It does not try to argue for a particular point of
view, however, but rather it discusses civil (and uncivil) ways to
conduct a discussion on what, to many, is a discomforting issue.
I commend it. It is written by an Englishman, so please allow for some
possibly unfamiliar phrasing and references.
How to avoid the charge of homophobia
Evangelical Christians who are opposed to homosexual behaviour sometimes
complain that they find it impossible to express their moral objections
on this score without being accused of homophobia. To some extent the
complaint is probably justified. However, in many cases I suspect that
the charge of prejudice is one these Christians bring upon themselves,
either by the content of their opinions or the style in which they are
voiced. Let me offer, therefore, a few pieces of advice to any such
Be sensitive Even if you are addressing the annual conference of
Reform or writing an article for the Church of England Newspaper, your
words will be heard further afield, not just by people who support your
opinions but by
gay Christians who are included in your attack. Homosexuals have been
victims of persecution for centuries. In particular, most gay Christians
have experienced discrimination of one kind or another from within the
Church. You are addressing, then, a community that has become habituated
to abuse and contempt. It is not surprising if they tend to assume that
all those who speak hostile words against homosexuality share the
prejudice to which they have grown accustomed.
This misunderstanding is all the more likely because many evangelical
Christians wish to interpret "homosexual" as a chosen lifestyle rather
than an innate identity. Gays themselves find it hard to believe that
anyone still clings to this culturally anachronistic perspective,
especially since it is so utterly incompatible with their own experience
of the homosexual condition. As a result, their interpretation of
anti-gay polemic is often complicated by an element of argument at
cross-purposes. The two sides do not share the same presuppositions, and
so inevitably end up accusing one another of being obtuse.
If you really want to avoid this, you must remember that all
communication consists not in what is said, but in what is heard. Try
putting yourself in the shoes of a gay Christian and reflect on how they
are likely to understand your words. Similar efforts have to be made
these days in commenting on many other sensitive areas. The police must
watch their language when they challenge afro-carribean youths in
Brixton. Businessmen have had to learn to speak with extra caution when
dealing with female staff. Some preachers have made efforts in the
direction of inclusive language. The vocabulary we choose, the jokes we
crack, the stereotypes we endorse - verbal carelessness of many kinds can
betray the presence of prejudice buried so deep in our vocabulary we do
not even recognise its offensive potential.
Of course, it is easy to disparage the appeal for more sensitivity in
this area as mere "political correctness". And, up to a point, such
impatience is understandable. Activists within racial minorities and
have sometimes exploited the emotive overtones in words like "racist" or
"sexist" in order to foster a culture of suspicion within their
respective communities. No doubt pro-gay campaigners have sometimes
their opponents as homophobes in a similar way. However, a little
pre-emptive tact is all that it takes to forestall such unjust
criticisms, if you really do wish to avoid them.
Be rational Prejudice, by definition, is irrational. It feeds
on superstitious taboos, distorted caricatures and just plain ignorance.
All these factors contribute to homophobia. Most gay Christians find it
impossible to understand the reason for the Church's traditional
negativism towards the kind of relationships for which their hearts
yearn. They put it in the same category of embarrassing ecclesiastical
gaffes as witch-trials,
anti-semitism and the crusades. To them the current anti-gay movement
among evangelicals seems as ludicrously out-of-date as the flat-earth
society. It must reflect prejudice, they say, because it is so utterly
irrational. The way to avoid this charge is to make sure your opinions
are rigorously argued.
For instance, gays are often damned with the adjective "unnatural". They,
not unreasonably reply "unnatural for whom?" The potential for same-sex
covenant love to exceed heterosexual marriage in its capacity to generate
personal devotion and self-sacrifice is clearly attested in story of
David and Jonathan. Was their friendship "unnatural"? The Church replies
that by "unnatural" it does not mean homophile affection as such, but the
acts to which such affection may lead. But again gays are perplexed
because there is nothing they do in the pursuit of sexual fulfillment
which cannot be found among heterosexuals. If the Church's real argument
is with oral and anal intercourse, why is it only gays who are being
targeted? And why are the many co-habiting gays who, for reasons of their
own, abstain from penetrative sex not exempted from the Church's
Again, homosexuals are often told their behaviour is "unbiblical" - to
which they reply "unbiblical according to whom?" That there are biblical
texts that have been traditionally understood to mean that all
homosexuality are wrong is undeniable. But tradition has proven a
notoriously dangerous guide throughout church history. Responsible
biblical interpreters recognise that reason has an indispensable role to
play in distinguishing valid tradition from hallowed mistakes. No doubt
in areas of abstruse doctrine like the Trinity it may be sometimes
defensible to take refuge in "mystery". Truths of revelation may
sometimes appear counter-intuitive. However, that kind of concession to
irrationality is not sustainable in the area of ethics. Moral imperatives
are only cogent if they
are perceived to make sense.
In that connection, Jesus himself countered the complexity of scribal
casuistry with his assurance that the whole of our moral duty could be
summed up in two great commandments: love God and love your neighbour.
experience of gay Christians, however, is that committed homophile
relationships breach neither of these prime directives. They reason that
the biblical texts which appear to condemn homosexuality must, therefore,
reflect certain kinds of homosexual activity in the ancient world which
did contravene the twin laws of love. This could be either because they
were exploitative/abusive (contra the love of neighbour) or associated
with idolatry (contra the love of God). This interpretation of the texts
seems to them perfectly reasonable. Those who wish to insist that
homosexuality is "unbiblical" must demonstrate, therefore, what it is
about same-sex relationships that make them wrong. Posturing that does
not get beyond "the Bible says so" smacks of the crudest form of
Most important of all, if you are determined to insist that homosexuality
should be treated as a sin, you must provide some rational evidence of
the harm it does. All we are told in this connection is that it damages
family". Gay Christians simply do not understand the logic of this
charge. Is the implication that thousands of young people would choose
homosexuality as an alternative to heterosexual marriage if the Church
rescinded its ban? The idea is patently ridiculous. What then is it about
homosexuality that is so dangerous that it must be eliminated from the
Church at all costs? If you do not want to be considered a homophobic
bigot you must at least make an effort to explain this rationally.
Be consistent Prejudice is invariably discriminatory. It is
selects a certain group of people as the object of its loathing and
ignores others. It seems to the gay community that in targeting them
evangelical Christians are displaying precisely this kind of selectivity.
They observe that a strong case can be made, both from tradition and
scripture, against usury, abortion and divorce. But evangelicals do not
seem to be mounting public campaigns to have bankers, gynaecologists and
divorcees excommunicated or excluded from public ministry. On the
contrary, a sweet reasonableness permits such individuals to continue in
fellowship. Why are gays singled out for the evangelical anathema?
Two answers are usually given to this:
The first is that homosexuality is a peculiarly serious crime. But, once
again, we must know why? More serious than the cruel burden of debt
inflicted on the poorest nations of the world? More serious than the
dismembering of unborn children? More serious than a direct challenge to
the word of Christ himself about the inviolability of the marriage bond?
The second answer is that the pro-homosexual lobby has been so brazen in
its flaunting of "gay rights" that evangelicals have been forced to take
counter-measures. Gays might have been allowed to stay in the closet, we
are assured, but they have insisted on public recognition and awoken the
sleeping dragon of moral outrage as a result.
But there is long history of Christian minorities campaigning for their
"rights". Protestants and Catholics both did so in the sixteenth century.
Anabaptists and quakers did so in the seventeenth century. Slaves did so
in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries. Women did so in the twentieth
century. In each case, the authority of the Bible and of tradition were
invoked and political power was deployed in order to prevent change. Yet
everybody recognises that these minorities had a just cause and should in
no way have yielded to the institutionalised intimidation that sought to
silence their protests. Is it not reasonable to believe that homosexuals
may be the latest in this catalogue of groups who have had to fight
prejudice to secure toleration? Since evangelicals have historically on
many occasions been numbered among those persecuted minorities
themselves, would it not be more consistent if they defended the "rights"
of gays rather than complaining about those brave individuals who have
"come out" in order to secure justice for their community?
Be humble It is always easier to identify arrogance in others than in
oneself. No doubt the strident assertions of some pro-gay activists lack
meekness, or even courtesy. Raised voices and immoderate words are all
too often symptoms of chronically inflated egos, and both the gay and
anti-gay lobbies certainly have their share of these.
However, there is more dangerous form of arrogance than simple
bigheadedness. Prejudice is particularly menacing when it is coupled to
an arrogant assertion of absolute certainty. Karl Popper in his seminal
The Open Society demonstrated how small the gap is between "I am sure I'm
right" and "Therefore, I must be obeyed". It was the absolute certainty
of fascism and communism that made them capable of genocide. It was the
absolute certainty of Muslim fundamentalism that led to the carnage of
September 11th. Christians too have been guilty of frightful acts of
tyranny and atrocity in the past. In fact, any creed that purports to
have access to
"Truth" can be subverted in this way.
Of course, the response of post-modernism has been to deny all claims to
absolute certainty by radically relativising the meaning of "Truth". But
evangelicals refuse to throw the baby out with the bathwater in that way;
and rightly so in my view. It is perfectly possible to witness to the
infallibility of Scripture without surrendering to authoritarianism, and
it is absolutely crucial at this juncture in the cultural history of the
West that we demonstrate that possibility to the watching world. Failure
to do so will result in evangelicalism being stigmatised along with the
Taliban; and again, rightly so.
The only sense in which homosexuality can rightly be said to be a
"defining issue" for the Church today is that it crucially tests the
ability of Christians to eschew fundamentalist fanaticism and to hold the
divine Word of truth in humility.
Homophobic bigotry - or just conscientious objection?
To sum up then, if you would avoid the charge of homophobia you must
the sensitivity that chooses tactful words;
the rationality that offers arguments rather than assertions;
the consistency that expresses equal indignation about other social
and, perhaps most important of all, the humility to admit that you
might be wrong.
You may complain that pro-gay speakers and writers do not show such
consideration to you. Instead your sincere moral convictions have been
denounced as homophobic bigotry. I acknowledge that this could be true.
But, however unfair the misrepresentation of your views, the situation is
not symmetric. Christian gays are not trying to eject you from the Church
or from ministry, you are trying to eject them.
In law a verdict of "Not Guilty" requires only the establishment of
"reasonable doubt". Even if you feel the case against gays has been
proved, there are other members of the jury who are less convinced. No
one wishes to
shut you up, but what you say and how you say it makes a huge difference.
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